I am sure you will agree with me on this one.
It gives you immense pleasure
- When you do something to make someone smile,
- When you put efforts to do something surprising for someone and you find that someone is extremely pleasantly surprised.
There were times when my friends or my family have done something for me and I have felt great about it. But the happiness is multiplied when I do something for someone. Someone who is my Best friend, someone who's really close to my heart.
I think, it is in our nature to make our closed ones happy, To do things which can keep the sadness away from them. Sometimes we forget that and we start expecting others to do something for us. And I have a point there - Don't do something because that person has done something for you, rather do it for what that person is.
Recently, I surprised one of my friends here (who is leaving and chances are less that I get to meet her again) and she was touched by that expression and asked "What have I done so great that I deserve so much affection from you" to which my answer was: "You ARE just awesome person, you don't need to DO anything to deserve something".
Similarly,We should be good and behave good in life with loving attitude and GOD (that powerful positive energy) , someday, will feel like helping us in our good endeavors. We don't need to do something explicitly for Him. We just need to be ourselves.
At the Least, This is My philosophy:
"Be yourself and Be good to one and all, Great things will automatically happen to you! "I think, it is in our nature to make our closed ones happy, To do things which can keep the sadness away from them. Sometimes we forget that and we start expecting others to do something for us. And I have a point there - Don't do something because that person has done something for you, rather do it for what that person is.
Recently, I surprised one of my friends here (who is leaving and chances are less that I get to meet her again) and she was touched by that expression and asked "What have I done so great that I deserve so much affection from you" to which my answer was: "You ARE just awesome person, you don't need to DO anything to deserve something".
Similarly,We should be good and behave good in life with loving attitude and GOD (that powerful positive energy) , someday, will feel like helping us in our good endeavors. We don't need to do something explicitly for Him. We just need to be ourselves.
At the Least, This is My philosophy:
~kRUPa
5 comments:
I completely agree.. :)
"Don't do something because that person has done something for you, rather do it for what that person is". So why do we expect great things to happen to us ;)
"Great things will automatically happen to you" - That sentence is to support the power of goodness and positive attitude.
I bet, if something is not happening good with you, then you will not continue doing that thing. So If I say Be good and Be yourself and nothing good happens with you then you will change your attitude. It is not about expectations dude.. it is about Believing in power of positive thinking.
:) thanks for your comment..
~KrupA
mmm... may be we are not doing it now... (meant, not continuing when nothing good(this is relative..so..) happens) ... Can't we just do it without expecting something to happen? Do we need motivation of getting fruits, to water a plant? ... wondering... :)
What you are saying makes sense.
Still what sentence I said, seems OK to me :) (Perception difference ;))
KrupA
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